Just about the only thing I've done this flight is sleep,
watch (with my eyes only) Iron Man 3 again, gush over adorable Korean toddlers,
and read the ETA (English Teaching Assistant) Handbook that was sent to us
weeks ago but I've only just gotten around to reading. It goes over tips on how
to shop, cultural norms, how to get around, etc.
Some interesting things I found about this handbook:
- Many of the sections suggest to go somewhere or do
something with "your Mongolian friends" or "a Mongolian
friend" first. So... considering this is an intro to ETAs in UB, does that
mean our ETAssistantship just comes with a trusted Mongolian buddy included in
the program? There's no section on "How to Make Mongolian Friends"!
- It is very cold,
with winter temperatures regularly reaching -40F. (HOLY MOLY!
"Regularly"??) The key to
surviving is layers. This starts with at least one layer of long underwear,
pants, a shirt, a sweater, a long coat that goes at least beyond your waist, at
least one hat (this is calling up memories of a children's storybook where
a character is wearing stacks of hats... a Dr. Seuss book, perhaps?), a scarf, thin gloves and big mittens to go
over them, and a least one pair of thick wool socks and heavy boots. Make sure
you have enough room to comfortably wear your boots with your thick socks and
wiggle your toes. (I got 7.5 hiking boots off of Amazon... guess I should
have gone a size up!)
- You can try being vegetarian in UB, but goodness forbid
you try and be vegan: you'll basically be written off as rude: It may be difficult to interact with
Mongolians during meals. Mongolians always feed you when you go to their house,
so it can make visiting difficult as well.
- 1 USD is 1440 MNT (Mongolian Tugriks). There are no coins,
as the smallest bill is 1 tugrik (bills less than 50 are rarely used). Internet
cafes are common and you can use the internet for less than 600 tugriks an
hour. A taxi ride is 700 tugriks per kilometer.
- Mongolians usually only refer to each other using their
"first" names and those with identical first names use a patronymic
(name of the father) that precedes
their first name. (In Russian, it's first name followed by the patronymic.) For
example, since my dad's name is Germelino, my Mongolian name might be
Germelinogiin Kristine or G. Kristine.
- Names are often two nouns or adjectives. Examples being:
Turmurbaatar
"iron-hero" (male)
Chuluunbold
"stone-steel" (male)
Narantuya
"sunbeam" (female)
Sarangerel
"moon-light" (female)
I think girls' names are so pretty! My friend Enka's name
comes from the word Enkh meaning "peace."
- "Do you have a boyfriend?" "Why aren't you
married?" "How old are you?" "How much money do you
make?" "Do you have children?" "Why don't you marry a
Mongolian?" are all common questions. In
a society where human relationships are so important, these are attempts to
build intimacy across vertical social structures. Sometimes these are the only
English phrases that a Mongolian may know. Remember that people are trying to
be friendly.
- Like in Russia (and in some cities in the U.S.,
unfortunately!), recycling is not a thing. But peddlers will often collect and
even buy plastic and aluminum bottles to turn in for more money. They can be
identified by their burlap collection bags. I will be close friends with these
folks!!!
Yeah recycling! That is extreeeeemely cold. I wish you the best. Oh doodness!!
ReplyDelete"In a society where human relationships are so important, these are attempts to build intimacy across vertical social structures."
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re: "your Mongolian friends"
ReplyDeleteIn Taiwan, many of us became close with our co-workers, who tended to be young to middle age women. They took seriously the responsibility of introducing us to the country, local restaurants, etc. Taiwan offered a host family program, as well. However, few of us made friends with Taiwanese who were unrelated to the program -- with the exception of our favorite meat stick and avocado milk vendors!
PS -- befriend the Peace Corps volunteers, too!
ReplyDeleteNext care package item to be packed immediately: a patch to sew onto your shirt (or I suppose your knee-length parka) advertising your need for new Mongolian friends! Stay warm and seek out your veggies! :)
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